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Ronald Reagan knew how to control the narrative if things started to veer in the wrong direction - you can too

Known as the 1984 kill shot, Ronald Reagan demolished his competitor, Walter Mondale.

How?

Reframe.

Watch the 40-sec YouTube clip - then come back :)

There was concern over Reagan’s age. The pressure of the office might be too much for him.

What did Reagan do?

He reframed the narrative...

He essentially said, it’s not about my age, it’s about my opponents youth and inexperience.

Case closed - minds shifted.

But how does this help you and your selling?

NOTE: to be clear, we certainly don't want to be using manipulative political tactics. We want to help people.

Reframes, done with right intent, do that.

When you look a great reframes, they follow a pattern.

For example:


  1. Shinseki said: “If you dislike change, you’re going to dislike irrelevance even more.”
  2. Willink said: “Don’t count on motivation. Count on discipline.”
  3. Drucker said: “The best way to predict the future is to create it.”
See the pattern?

They’re saying: It’s not this – it’s that.

The formula is simple: It’s not [x] – it’s [y]

How can you use this?

Reframes work great with prospects who are stuck. Prospects are often overwhelmed and under immense pressure. They may be hesitant to make a change.

A well-placed reframe can help them get unstuck – to see something in a fresh way.

Let’s take three examples:

Financial services:
Sometimes prospects think the brand name is what matters when it comes to their investments (think Fidelity). If prospects are stuck on this, a lesser known firm can help them refocus on what’s really important.

Reframe: It’s not about the big brand name – it’s the hands-on service that secures your future.

Real estate:
Home buyers may be frustrated by the lack of homes on the market. A real estate agent could help with a reframe.

Reframe: In this market, it’s less about the choice of a home (you can always make improvements) – it’s the choice of location.

Executive consultant:
Perhaps a CEO is frustrated by their team fighting and arguing over strategy. A seasoned consultant might reframe this as:

Reframe: It sounds like they’re engaged – we can use that.

(In other words, it’s not about the fighting, it’s about redirecting that energy)

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  • Think about the areas where your prospects get stuck
  • Come up with a few reframes that could help them find their way
The formula: It’s not [x] – it’s [y]

1 sales principle

Brains like reframes

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Watch vid - Reagan kill shot

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