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Avoid Salesy - Feel Good

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One non-salesy tip

Here's how to kick off a great sales convo...

Many sales convos are doomed from the outset. Expectations aren't clear. People are confused. Prospects don't feel safe. Sellers feel awkward. Then they're ghosted...

This isn't fun for anyone!

The fix?

It's called a Verbal Agenda

A Verbal Agenda sets expectations, and creates a safe space for a great discovery conversation...

There are 4 parts...

4-Part Verbal Agenda:

  1. Time check
    • Time is the most basic expectation you can set. It's also a reminder of the commitment made between two parties.
  2. Permission to learn
    • Asking permission to learn is a sign of respect. It creates safety, focuses on the prospect, and helps build trust
  3. Unique approach & no
    • You have to be different (better isn’t enough). This generates interest and safety. You'll see an example below.
  4. Next step, confirm
    • Avoid getting ghosted by building in next step on front end, and confirm the agenda with your prospect.
Here's an example of what it might sound like:
__________________________________________________________________________
Time check: I appreciate you carving out some time to chat. I have have 30 minutes booked on my calendar. Does that still work for you?

Permission to learn: To ensure I understand what's important to you and your situation, I’d like to ask you some questions. Would that be ok?

Unique approach & no: Obviously I’m a fan of our unique approach, but it may not be for you. If at any point you feel like we’re not a good fit, please feel free to stop me - is that fair?

Next step, confirm: Lastly, provided what we talk about today feels good to you, could we use the last 10 minutes to explore a next step? Does that sound like a good use of our time today - and what would you add?
__________________________________________________________________________

The above creates safety for your prospect
It gently guides the path forward
It puts prospects at ease

I hope this helps.

Download the Verbal Agenda Guide

One sales principle

If you want to avoid salesly - sell with a sword.

- Empower your hero with a sword
- Help them slay their dragons
- Give them confidence
- Show them success
- Then knight them

This is selling

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