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Avoid Salesy - Feel Good

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Get tone right and win more deals

Tone is a wildly underrated sales skill.

It’s easy to know when Maverick’s got good tone...you know when he's locked on.

But how do we know?

Advice doesn't help, e.g., "It just didn't feel natural..."

Instead, there's a better way.

Here are six areas that allow you to identify when you're locked on, and when you're not.

Here are the six:

  1. Pace: the speed at which you talk. Most sellers talk too fast, e.g., "Hi Ted, can I take 27 seconds to tell you why I called!" A better pace is slower and relaxed and sounds like, "Hi Ted, it's Sue from So & So corp. Hey, I know I called you out of the blue. Do you have a sec to chat?"
  2. Context: knowing your audience & context matters - the automotive space is very different than the medical field. The former is more free-flowing. The latter is more formal and structured. Understanding context helps you adjust your tone accordingly.
  3. Cadence: this is the rhythm of language - the ebb and flow, the ups/downs. Think of the southern drawl compared to a Canadian. These are very different rhythms. Adjusting your cadence to your context helps your prospect hear you more easily.
  4. Inflection: think the opposite of monotone - inflection is where you put emphasis on certain words. It's where you bring your voice up in the form of a question, or perhaps drop it lower (or softer) to make a point.
  5. Personality: this is the natural way "you" speak. Are you bubbly, or more like Matthew McConaughey? Your voice should be your voice in it's natural state - not something forced or fake. If you're naturally bland, some inflection and cadence can help.
  6. Confidence: this is a calm-assertive vocal presence. It's easy to go one way or the other - too confident = cocky, arrogant, and/or authoritarian. Swing the other way and it's anxious (shaky, nervous, subservient) - the middle ground is a non-anxious presence. A calm-assertive presence expressed in your voice.
Tone isn't something to be forced - it should sound natural, like talking to a friend over coffee. It can take some practice in a sales context, but you can get to the point where you're not "thinking" about it...

When you try too hard, it sounds:

- Wooden and fake, shifting from your natural personality & style
- This creates anxiety and so you sound scripted & forced
- You then lose natural cadence, inflection, and pace

Three quick tips for you get a better lock on tone:

1. Standup – let your body do the work for you
2. Practice – run it by a friend, colleague
3. Record – listen back to yourself

I hope this helps...

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