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May 27 2022

Win or lose – you should be learning

“I never lose. I either win or learn.” This quote from Nelson Mandela gets a lot of airplay in a variety of settings, including sales. However, it may not be as good a fit in a sales context.

According to the world’s top performance coach, Justin Su’a, it’s not win or learn. It’s win or lose – learn from both.

Here’s some take aways from his conversation with Shane Parrish (all paraphrased and adapted for sales):

  • It’s not win or learn – it’s win or lose.
  • You can and should learn from both wins and losses.
  • You need to own your losses.
  • Did you get beat fair and square, e.g., you did your best, but your competitor was better?
  • Or, did you lose because you took shortcuts, e.g., skimmed discovery, talked too much?
  • Why did you win – did you get lucky, or was it stellar performance?

Here’s three questions to ask yourself with all deals?

  1. Win or lose – what did I learn?
  2. Win or lose – what went well?
  3. Win or lose – what will I do differently?

I hope this podcast recap helps!

If you’re not following Shane Parrish’s blog and podcast, I highly recommend it. (I have no affiliation – it’s just great content)

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  1. So you were on a podcast?
  2. “I love to sell” is not necessarily a good thing
  3. To discover or not to discover

Written by Ted Olson · Categorized: Sales Blog

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