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Jan 08 2023

Using LinkedIn Connection Requests in Sales the Wrong & Right Way

Can you use LinkedIn’s connection request for sales outreach…

No…

and yes….

Please don’t do this:

  1. Compliment me to make a connection and then go for the hard close
  2. Use my alumni or connections to “just connect” only to follow up with a sales pitch
  3. Praise my post or article and offer to connect “as friends” only to start selling me something

These tricks break trust

Instead, anyone who wants a few suggestions for a better approach – read below

  1. Rule number one: be honest, ask for what you want
  2. Rule number two: don’t assume, provide freedom of choice
  3. Rule number three: ask for openness to talk (not 30 mins of time)

You’ve got 300 characters to make your case.

Here’s three examples that I don’t hate:

1. Hi Ted, not sure this is on your mind, but connecting to see if you’re open to a convo about [insert scenario]? Worst case, we connect networks and part as friends. Thanks, Ted

2. Hi Ted, I may be out in left field here, but connecting to see if you’re open to chatting (at some point) about [insert scenario]? No pressure. I’m happy to just connect networks, too. Thanks, Ted

3. Hi Ted, happy to get out of your hair, but I wouldn’t reach out if I didn’t think there was potential to help with [insert scenario]. Is this your experience, or am I off base? Glad to connect either way. Thanks, Ted

I hope this helps.

PS: Rule number four (bonus): LinkedIn should not be your only touchpoint – or even the first one. The phone works, and a good email with a short personalized video can go a long way. Also, consider LinkedIn’s voice message functionality.

Related posts:

  1. Overthinking video in your sales outreach?
  2. Should you connect and pitch on LinkedIn?
  3. Don’t Break Trust With Amateur Sales Outreach Tactics

Written by Ted Olson · Categorized: Sales Blog

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