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Jul 24 2022

Let them speak

You know that urge you have to talk when selling?

Don’t.

Try this, instead: 

  • Resist the urge to speak.
  • Hold off on that anecdote
  • Don’t share that story 
  • Let your prospect talk
  • Build on what they say

But how?

Two quick tips:

Pause

  • Build pauses in
  • Just stop talking
  • Smile and nod 

This allows your prospect to interject, ask a question, or just reflect.

Questions 

Learn to ask them and and to listen to the answers… 

Here are a few: 

  • I’m hearing this [insert industry concern], is this your experience or not so much? 
  • How is this sitting with you, or is this not what you had in mind? 
  • What haven’t we covered that you wanted to talk about?
  • How are you feeling about this? 
  • Anything else?

Prospects appreciate the space to speak.

Give it to them.

Related posts:

  1. You know that urge you have to speak when selling…
  2. One Simple Way To Start A Sales Conversation
  3. 3 Ways To Listen Well That Most Salespeople Forget About

Written by Ted Olson · Categorized: Sales Blog

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