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Nov 23 2021

Don’t Break Trust With Amateur Sales Outreach Tactics

An open letter to those who are missing the mark with their sales outreach efforts (along with a better approach):

You’ve broken my trust with your amateur sales outreach efforts on LinkedIn

  1. You complimented me to make a connection and then went for the hard close
  2. You used my alumni or connections to “just connect” only to follow up with a hard close
  3. You praised my post or article and offered to connect only to follow up with the hard close

You have broken one of sales most precious commodities – trust

Your amateur tactics are giving sales and networking a bad name.

You’ve lost my trust from the start.

Even if I wanted to, I can’t do business with you now.

Does your boss know that you’re actively losing opps for them?

Do you want to know what you should do – READ BELOW

  1. Rule number one: be honest
  2. Rule number two: don’t assume
  3. Rule number three: ask for openness to talk (not time)
  4. Rule number four (bonus): don’t be a jerk, and LinkedIn should not be your only touchpoint – or even the first one.

Here are three examples of how you could approach someone on LinkedIn:

Hi Ted, I’m not sure if this is on your mind, but I’d like to connect with you to see if we can help with X, Y, and Z. Are you open to a conversation, or not so much? Worst case scenario is we connect our networks and part as friends.

Hi Ted, I’ve been talking with other leaders like yourself regarding X, Y, and Z. I don’t know if this is anything you’re experiencing. Are you open to connecting and perhaps a conversation at some point? No pressure. I’m happy to just connect networks, too.

Hi Ted, I’m sure you’re flooded with connection requests. I wouldn’t reach out if I didn’t think there was potential to help with X, Y, and Z. Is any of this on your mind, or am I off base? I’m happy to connect with you either way. Thanks, Ted.

I hope this helps!

Related posts:

  1. Using LinkedIn Connection Requests in Sales the Wrong & Right Way
  2. Should you connect and pitch on LinkedIn?
  3. Selling On LinkedIn

Written by Ted Olson · Categorized: Sales Blog

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