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Feb 15 2022

Avoid these words when selling

When talking with your prospects don’t say these words…

Don’t Use These Words:
Pain
Challenges
Problems
Issues
These words can trigger a negative response from your prospect

Words like pain, challenges, issues, and problems, can produce defensive responses from prospects.

Here are three examples with common trigger words:

Salesperson: “So what’s the problem you’re wrestling with most?”

Prospect: “Well, I don’t know if it’s a problem. I mean, there are always ups and downs.”

Salesperson: “It sounds like there are a number of challenges at play.”

Prospect: “I don’t know if I’d go so far as to call them challenges. We’re working hard and making good progress.”

Salesperson: “So what are the issues you’re having?”

Prospect: “I don’t think I’d call them issues, but rather we need a little help navigating some changes.”

Instead Use These Words:
Situation
Context
Scenarios
Your company
These words can help keep your prospects feeling safe with you

Notice the difference when you use these safer words:

  1. Help me understand the situation… 
  2. Can you expand on your context…
  3. You mentioned several scenarios…
  4. To ensure I understand what’s happening at your organization…

I hope this helps!

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Written by Ted Olson · Categorized: Sales Blog

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