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Mar 05 2022

A quick way to curb sales insecurity & doubt

I had as sales giant once ask me in a thunderous voice (think fe-fi-fo-fum), “What’s your sales process.” 

I did have one…and it was good….

But it was in my head…

So, like any self-respecting sales & marketing geek I babbled for a bit…and then a bit more…and then closed with more babble.

He said, “Okay, break it down for me. Give me the step-by-step.”

I couldn’t.

Not very clearly or articulately, anyway.

Lesson learned – Today I write step-by-step playbooks for fun – and for just about everything I do.

Why am I telling YOU this story?

One of the fastest ways to remove sales insecurity and doubt is to know your process.

Knowing the process you walk a prospect through to help them get to where they want to go will reduce sales insecurity and doubt.

  1. What do you say and to whom?
  2. What do you ask and why?
  3. What do you show and when?

All of that “stuff in your head” needs a clear and repeatable path.

I almost don’t care what it is. It’s more important that you have one that you know – you can always make improvements.

Here’s why it matters:

Confidence.

Dan Nelkan put it well in his new book (Nelkan’s Nifty Notables…or something…)

He writes,

“…the difference between having a process and knowing your process is the difference between insecurity and confidence.”

Here’s the good news…if you hate process, and I know a lot of consultants and salespeople that do…

“…if at any point point you miss the sweet sounds of that self-doubting voice, just go back to winging…” it. (also from Dan)

I hope this helps.

Related posts:

  1. Sales confidence is a muscle to exercise
  2. Get clear on your sales process – boil it down
  3. What is sales confidence?

Written by Ted Olson · Categorized: Sales Blog

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