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Apr 04 2023

3 Questions that Risk Deals – and how to easily avoid them

3 sales questions that trigger defensive responses from prospects:

ONE:

  • Seller: “What’s the problem you’re wrestling with most?”
  • Prospect: “I don’t know if it’s a problem…”

TWO:

  • Seller: “It sounds like there are challenges at play.”
  • Prospect: “I wouldn’t call them challenges….”

THREE:

  • Seller: “Help me understand the issue with your team.”
  • Prospect: “I’m not sure there’s an issue….”

See the pattern?

The prospect is getting defensive.

Why?

People hate problems, challenges, and issues.

Try these instead:

  • “Help me understand your situation?”
  • “It sounds like there are various scenarios at play, is that fair?”
  • “Help me unpack what’s happening with your team.”

Feel the difference?

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Written by Ted Olson · Categorized: Sales Blog

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